I am Pro-Christmas, really I am! I just haven’t made any moves yet to show it. When I cleaned out my butler’s pantry I threw away the Advent candles…they were melted beyond recognition, truly, but it did seem mean-spirited at the time. Now, I have no Advent candles. I guess they sold them after Mass, but I exited the church on the wrong side and missed them. Now, if I buy some, I’ll be playing catch-up since it’ll be time to light the third candle this Sunday. Not to mention, that we did not see the booklet of Advent prayers and meditations to go through every night when lighting the candles, so we’ve missed that too.
I’ve been to the first two Advent masses, and not one single Christmas song has been played! No Joyeaux Noel, no Oh Come, Oh Come Emmanuel, no Silent Night…NOTHING! I blame it on the new music director, who likes to incorporate all new songs with no practice. We also have new “song books” sans music. I asked one choir member about it and she was puzzled when I said there was no music…I think modern “singers” don’t read music to such an extent that they don’t even know the difference between “music” and “lyrics”. How is that?
I haven’t put up my tree…and I’m struggling to figure this one out. We used to go to the Christmas tree farm and cut our own tree. Eleven years ago, with a small baby to care for, I got the flu Thanksgiving week and stayed home, almost dead to the world with my younger daughter while the rest of the family went to visit my husband’s aunt and uncle. They also went without us to cut down the tree. But as I recovered from the flu, I had a terrible respiratory allergic reaction to the tree…then came down with tonsillitis. Then the flu again. Then tonsillitis again…by this time, it was Christmas. The day after Christmas my husband tried to find an urgent care facility since my doctor’s office was closed. (My throat was almost swelled shut, so I couldn’t even talk.) We went and were told we needed an appointment during the day. Sigh. Finally got into the doctor who asked if she should call the hospital and reserve a bed for me…three days later they released me and sent me home with a “push” IV that I continued for three more days followed by 10 days of oral antibiotics…then I got bronchitis. At that point, I figured it HAD to be viral since I’d been soaked in antibiotics for 16 days. Six weeks later, I finally got better. Ok, that’s a long way to say, I’ve not had a live tree since!
Last year, my older daughter and a friend put up our artificial tree, but this year my daughter told me that she’d had a bad allergic reaction to the tree last year…10 years of accumulated Christmas dust has worked its way into the branches. She doesn’t want to put the tree up this year, and I don’t blame her. So, still recovering from sinusitis, I’m not anxious to tackle the task myself. I wonder if I ignore the whole thing if someone will take the initiative to put it up??? (Watch this space…)
I’ve not bought presents, written my Christmas letter, nor organized to send out Christmas cards. I’ve not bought the ingredients to make any of our favorite Christmas cookies and I haven’t planned the Christmas dinner menu. We haven’t put up any lighted garlands around our house either. So, I’m basically making NO progress towards Christmas!
Tonight when I got home from work, I decided to do at least ONE thing to celebrate the season, so I dug out two things…our Nativity and our musical Christmas mouse. Now, I remember fondly the tradition of putting up the Nativity from my childhood. Out would come an old cardboard box filled with tissue paper-wrapped figures. We three sisters would take turns taking a piece out, trying to decipher the figures by the size and shape of the scrunched paper around them. I’d go for a small one, hoping for the baby Jesus or at least his guardian angel…only to get a small sheep. When we’d taken all our turns we’d un-wrap our figures and place them in the Crèche, hanging the angel last.
I recall the only time I ever went to a Black Friday sale, before they even called it that, it was to get my own Nativity. I rushed in the door and straight to the display and snatched up the set with 5” figures. Then I puzzled over whether I really wanted the 7 incher…meanwhile an older couple, one too old to have young children, but the right age to have young grandchildren appeared to be about to snatch it out of my hands! There was only one set of each size and I clung to the 5 inch-size for dear life and bought it. I’ve since purchased a few extra figures including the Wise Men, the Guardian Angel, the Drummer Boy, and assorted other figures.
I did not have a childhood tradition with the musical Christmas mouse, or as the box reads: Magical Musical Maestro Mouse! This was a gift from my father and his wife and we bring him out and turn him on at Christmas. There are 12 rectangles representing various Christmas songs, and if you place one on the music stand, the mouse will declare that he’ll play the song and the keys will move as the song plays out. It’s quite entertaining!
So, although I’m late to the party on traditional Christmas trappings, the Spirit fills our house and our hearts.
Find the Joy in the Journey…especially at this time of year!